Therapy for OCD

Do you often have unwanted, distressing thoughts? Intrusive thoughts that maybe scare you or cause feelings of panic or anxiety? As a result of these thoughts, do you feel the need to repeat certain actions, rituals, or routines to feel less anxious? Maybe even distracting, avoiding, or mentally combatting these thoughts in a certain way?

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) can be understood as a cycle, typically beginning with an intrusive thought, image, or sensation (aka obsessions) that triggers anxiety or distress. To reduce this discomfort, the individual engages in behaviors or mental rituals, considered compulsions. Although these compulsions provide temporary relief, the relief is short-lived, and the intrusive thoughts return, restarting the cycle. Although compulsions feel necessary to get some sort of relief, they actually work against you by reinforcing the obsessive thoughts. Over time, the cycle can become more frequent and intense, making it difficult to break without professional support. Understanding this pattern is the first step toward managing OCD effectively.

Let me give you an example—Parker constantly worries they have a serious illness despite doctors giving them a clean bill of health. They spend hours each day researching symptoms online, checking their body for signs of disease, and seeking reassurance from doctors and loved ones. When they have a headache, they have intrusive thoughts such as “what if it’s a brain tumor?”, or when they get a bug bite they question “what if this turns into measles?” This cycle of doubt and fear about their health affects their sleep, work, and relationships. Parker is constantly worrying, making everyday tasks and experiences stressful and overwhelming.

Another example—Riley has intrusive thoughts about harm coming to themself or a loved one. When they are cooking dinner, a vivid image pops into their head of the knife they are using falling and stabbing their cat. When they are driving, thoughts come up such as “what if I run over that person crossing the street?” or “what if I drive over this bridge and drown?” Despite no desire to hurt or cause harm to anyone, they constantly worry they might lose control, leading to behaviors such as avoiding sharp objects and only driving with someone else in the car as to distract them from having these thoughts. They know they do not want to harm anyone, but these thoughts are so distressing and scary they limit scenarios where they are around sharp objects/drive or avoid all-together if they are able. If they are in these scenarios, they repeat “I am a good person” over and over in their head to remind themselves they are not going to hurt anyone. These fears and compulsions disrupt their relationships and daily routines, making it difficult to focus or relax.

If these symptoms or experiences resonate with you, you may be living with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). OCD is a fairly common diagnosis that can be managed and maintained through an evidenced-based therapy called Exposure Response Prevention (ERP).

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Exposure Response Prevention Therapy (ERP)

Exposure Response Prevention (ERP) Therapy is a specialized form of cognitive-behavioral therapy designed to help individuals facing anxiety disorders, particularly Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). ERP is evidenced based and considered the ‘gold standard’ of treatment for OCD.

ERP involves gently and gradually exposing individuals to thoughts, images, or situations that trigger their obsessions, while helping them resist the urge to engage in compulsive behaviors. This approach empowers individuals to face fears in a controlled, supportive environment, leading to lasting relief and improved daily functioning.

Subtypes of OCD—

While OCD subtypes are not part of an OCD diagnosis, they can help remind people with these experiences they are not alone. Although the OCD cycle is the same for everyone, what the intrusive thoughts, images, or sensations are about as well as the compulsive behaviors vary. I have outlines some common themes below, however this is not an exhaustive list. If your OCD does not fit into one of these categories know OCD can take many different forms and looks different for everyone.

Contamination

Obsessions: Intense and persistent fears of germs, dirt, or illness.

Common compulsions: In response, individuals may engage in excessive researching, cleaning, hand washing, or avoiding certain places or objects to reduce their anxiety. These behaviors are aimed at preventing perceived contamination but can significantly disrupt daily life and routines.

Responsibility

Obsessions: Fears around the consequences of your actions. Intrusive thoughts may be related to accidents, mistakes, or moral failings.

Common compulsions: Repetitive checking, seeking reassurance, or mental reviewing to prevent harm. This subtype can cause significant distress as the person feels overwhelming pressure to control situations or avoid potential dangers, even when these fears are unrealistic or exaggerated.

Existential

Obsessions: Intrusive thoughts related to fundamental questions about existence, purpose, and the nature of reality. These obsessions often involve deep fears about meaninglessness, the nature of the self, or what happens after death.

Common compulsions: Rituals like assessing memories or conversations in search of answers, seeking reassurance, or compulsively analyzing philosophical ideas. This subtype can be particularly distressing as it challenges core beliefs.

Harm

Obsessions: thoughts or fears about causing harm to oneself or others, without any desire or intention to act on them. Individuals may experience intense anxiety over the possibility of accidentally hurting loved ones or committing violent acts

Common compulsions: Can include excessive checking, reassurance seeking, or avoiding situations perceived as risky. Understanding that these thoughts are a symptom of OCD—not a reflection of true intent—is a vital step in managing this subtype.

Magical Thinking

Obsessions: Belief that ones’ thoughts, words, or actions can cause or prevent certain outcomes, often without any logical connection.

Common compulsions: Rituals aimed at avoiding perceived harm or bringing about good fortune. For example, someone might believe that thinking a bad thought will make something terrible happen, or that performing a specific routine will prevent disaster.

Religious

Obsessions: Intense, intrusive worries about moral or religious rightness. Individuals with religious (or scrupulosity) experience persistent doubts about whether their thoughts, actions, or intentions violate their ethical, spiritual, or religious beliefs.

Common compulsions: Repetitive rituals such as excessive praying, confessing, or seeking reassurance to alleviate guilt or anxiety. Scrupulosity often causes significant distress and can interfere with daily life, relationships, and one’s sense of faith.

Perfectionism

Obsessions: an overwhelming need for things to feel or appear exactly right. Individuals may experience intense discomfort or anxiety until their actions, thoughts, or surroundings meet a specific internal standard of perfection or symmetry.

Common Compulsions: Repetitive behaviors such as rearranging, checking, or repeating tasks until a sense of “rightness” is achieved, often disrupting daily life. This subtype revolves around an inner feeling that something is incomplete or off, driving compulsions aimed at restoring balance and order.

Relationship

Compulsions: doubts and fears about the quality or authenticity of one’s romantic relationship. Individuals with ROCD may obsess over whether they truly love their partner, whether their partner is "the one," or if their relationship is “right” despite clear evidence to the contrary.

Common compulsions: Seeking constant reassurance, mentally comparing their partner to others, or repeatedly analyzing feelings and relationship dynamics. This cycle can cause significant distress and interfere with intimacy and overall relationship satisfaction.

False Memory

Compulsions: Distressing doubts about whether a memory is accurate or real.

Common compulsions: Individuals may obsess over whether they truly experienced an event or if their mind fabricated it, leading to repeated checking, reassurance seeking, or mental reviewing to confirm the truth. This subtype can cause significant anxiety and confusion, as sufferers struggle to trust their own recollections.

Chelsea is formally trained in ERP and specializes in OCD and anxiety disorders. Chelsea can help you manage your OCD with compassion and expert guidance.

OCD thoughts can be scary and normally these thoughts do not align with the person’s morals/values (this is why they are so distressing!). A lot of people feel embarrassed or ashamed to admit they are even having these thoughts, which creates a huge barrier for individuals suffering to pursue any sort of support. I always strive to create an accepting environment where you feel safe to disclose your experience—there will never be any judgment or shame in this space. You deserve to feel well, and I am here to help.

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